Bed in a Field - Super Special Spring Minis 2018

I was lying in bed late one night, feeling restless and unable to sleep when this idea hit me: 

Bring an antique bed.. out into a field... put an adorable family on it... and BOOM!! 

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Photo session magic.  

It took quite a while to find the right family to throw my crazy idea out to, but when I did... as you can see, it really was magic. 

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Again a few nights ago, I was having trouble getting to sleep (there seems to be a common theme here...?) when I realized the bed in a field concept would be the perfect prop for this year's SPRING MINI SESSIONS!!  Am I right or am I RIGHT?  

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This year's SPRING MINIS will be Saturday, April 21st (I'll open up Friday the 20th if there's enough interest) and will be held in between Auburn and Grass Valley.  Oh, and did I mention they're first come, first serve?  Get ON IT.

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BOOKING IS SUPER SIMPLE: Click the handy dandy button below, fill out the form and be sure to include which mini session you'd like (CLASSIC or BASIC) and your desired time slot (sessions are scheduled every 30 minutes from 9-11 AM and 3-5 PM) and I'll get back to you promptly!  

** Session fee is required at booking to reserve time slot and includes up to 6 people - $25 per additional person.  Mini session galleries include approx. 7-10 edited images to order from.      

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This year's Spring Minis include a gorgeous, personalized Facebook Timeline to show off your beautiful faces!!  You pick the images, I do the rest.  It's pretty much the best ever.  Here's a little preview for ya:

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Are you following BDP on Instagram yet?  If not, you're totally missing out!!!  You can also find be hanging out over at Brandilyn Davidson Photography on Facebook

My Favorite Product: The Session Album

If you told me you could only order ONE thing from your photo session, I wouldn't even have to think for a second.  The Session Album wins, every time, hands down.

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A session album is a gorgeous photobook that features a custom cover and all the images (you want included) from your session.  It's like a beautiful book that freezes your little family in time and keeps it safe for you, for forever.  

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The cover and pages are sprayed with UV protection, literally keeping it safe from the elements - and the pages are mounted on thick board which means no bending or breaking as they are flipped through day after day.

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Also, can we talk about how badly I want a session of me and my man just like these??  BABE - are you reading this?  Someone please tell him.  I'm not kidding guys.

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Each page is designed as a spread, as it lays completely flat - leaving alllllll the room for your images to take center stage because, duh. 

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Gah.  Those toesies.

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I am such a big believer in leaving my clients with TANGIBLE products from their session.  Yes images on disk are great, but let's keep it real - how often do you actually DO something with them?  Yeah, that's what I thought.

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I want you to be able to savor those moments, each tiny detail - for years to come.  That's why TANGIBLE guys.  Because I know you're anything like me, life gets crazy and you never get around to doing anything with those files sitting on your computer.

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See why I love the Session Album so much now??  I'd love to create one for YOU friend - hit me up and let's get a session scheduled for ya!!  ----> you can contact me HERE.  Muah!

Take better pics of your kids

My pictures are my memories.  If you follow my personal Instagram account, you know I take A LOT of pictures of my kids.  And I have a lot of kids, so the outcome is just lots and lots of pictures.  Don't say you weren't warned.

That being said, people often ask me (parents in particular) how I get certain shots or capture certain moments of my children.  A lot of it just comes naturally in the way I think being a photographer, but that's not to say you can't learn to see and think that way too!!  There are also some super simple little tips and tricks that can make a big impact on the overall quality and artistic merit of your phone (or camera) images, especially when it comes to photographing always-moving, forever growing and changing children.  

1.  Pay attention to the light  

You want indirect light to be shining on your subject, not have your subject facing away from the light and lots of brightness behind the subject (unless you're going for a backlit look, which I love - but I'm trying to keep things simple here).  If it's super sunny, try jumping in full shade to even out shadows.  Phones are great at adjusting settings to your lights, so try a few different angles!

2.  Pay attention to the background

I'm the Queen at this - hence lots of "your house is so clean" comments on Instagram and Facebook.  Spoiler alert - my house is not always clean - I just pay attention to the background of my images.  Cluttered backgrounds take away from the subject.  Whether it be a bare wall, moving yourself to not include the crumbs all over your dining room floor or taking two steps to the left, backgrounds matter friends.

3.  Get LOW! 

Or high!  For little kids, get down at their level - I love taking pictures of kids and babies while lying on the ground.  I also love looking down on them from up high.  Whatever angle you go for - try something besides the exact same thing you do every time.  

4.  Take five million

This is IMPERATIVE.  I never take just one shot of a scene.  If I spot my kids doing something super adorable or special, I always try to be very sneaky and turn the sound off on my phone - and then take several shots, a few different angels, etc.  Then, when I have a second I look through all of them and choose the very best one.  This is especially important with action shots.  I'm sure you've all snapped a picture of your kid mid-sentence or mid-jump that is less than attractive.  Don't let that be the only one you took.

Want to know 5 Easy Steps that will help you take more Memorable Phone Pictures today??  I'll be going more in depth and giving examples of these tips this friday!! 

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I'm offering a FREE online class THIS FRIDAY and you should totally come!!  Just pop your name and email address below and you're IN!


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The BEST Sugar Cookie Recipe EVER

I gave this post from three years ago a little refresher... but not much has changed - they're still THE best.  Christmas isn't Christmas without these babies.  Hope you love them.

Guys, I'm not kidding when I tell you that these are THE best sugar cookies in the world.  They've been tried, they've been tested and they never fail to disappoint.  We make these every year for Christmas and usually Valentine's Day and Halloween too.  The recipe makes a TON and they are pretty time consuming, but it's so worth it and then you have plenty to either share or freeze for later. 

- SCROLL DOWN TO THE BOTTOM FOR A PRINTABLE RECIPE -

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INGREDIENTS:

2 cup butter, softened
3 eggs
2 1/4 teas. vanilla
4 1/2 teas. baking powder
2 cup sugar
4 Tbsp. milk
3/4 teas. salt
6 cup flour

DIRECTIONS:

Mix in order. Chill dough 1/2 hour. Roll out dough to about 1/4" on a heavily floured surface and cut into desired shapes. Bake approx. 6 minutes at 375 (my oven cooks fast, so I only cook mine for 5 minutes depending on how thick they are - they should be just barely - if at all - golden brown on the bottoms). I know I already said it, but this recipe seriously makes a LOT of cookies!! 

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And these wouldn't be the best ever sugar cookies without the best ever sugar cookie icing!!!!  

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INGREDIENTS:

powered sugar 

a small amount of milk to create desired consistency (you need WAY less milk that you'd think!  It should be similar to thick pudding consistency.  If it's too runny, just add a bit more powdered sugar.) 

a drop or two of almond extract *optional - I love them with and without it!

color as desired

Then…. decorate, let dry, enjoy and SHARE!!!  Really the goal at this point would be to not eat them all yourself. ** Let the frosting dry completely on a flat surface before stacking/moving.

This little profile though... my helpers are the cutest. 

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If your kids are anything like mine, they decorate (and eat) about 2-3 cookies and then disappear into thin air... leaving me with about five million more to frost.  At times I am tempted to just leave them, but these cookies just do NOT taste the same unfrosted.  If you happen to find yourself in a similar predicament, have no fear!!  You can totally freeze the unfrosted cookies and save them for another day.  Happy Holidays!!

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Still haven't gotten gifts for everyone on your list??  I've got your BACK.  The solution - gift certificates for everyone on your list.

Grandma: a $175 gift certificate gets her a session with her grandkids, she can order what she wants.

Sister-in-law: a $195 gift certificate for a Spring Mini Session to update her family pictures from seven years ago.

You (hint, hint husbands!!): $475 covers a custom session, ordering session and a basic package with prints for your house!!

All certificates will be either hand-delivered or mailed to you to personalize and surprise them!! 

Click here to get more info or order yours TODAY.

2017 Holiday Card Designs

I'm right there with ya friend.  I'm still thinking about Halloween costumes over here - let alone Thanksgiving and Christmas!!!  All the more reason to knock one big item off your holiday to-do list now, before it gets completely insane. 

Did you know that any 2017 client can have their session(s) re-posted at no additional charge from now until Nov. 30th in which to place holiday card orders and/or Christmas gift orders.  There are so many fun goodies to give - post coming soon on those.  If you'd like to take advantage of this, simply contact me and I'll get you all set up!  

Now for the pretty part - BDP's 2017 Holiday Card Templates!!!  I have paper samples of each of these and they're just SO much awesome-ER in person, so if you'd like to see them, just let me know!!  Start drooling now: 

 {Pricing and additional info at bottom of post}

* Vertical cards are shown: front on left, back on right.  Horizontal cards shown: front on top, back below. *

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How fun is this year in review idea??  

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All BDP Holiday Cards are press printed (double sided) on dreamy felt paper and are 5x7 in size.  They include white envelopes and come in sets of 25.  Did I mention they're gorgeous?  They're basically a gift in themselves.  Prices are as follows:

Set of 25 - $60

Set of 50 - $110

Additional Sets (of 25) - $50 each

Click {HERE} to request your gallery repost and order your Holiday Cards today!!

Fall Mini Sessions 2017

It's that time again...  Fall Mini Sessions are here!!   Space is extremely limited, and they're filling up fast.  Skip to the bottom of this post for mini session pricing and how to book now!!

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I stumbled upon magic today.  MAGIC you guys.  My friend and I started a little weekly homeschool Nature Group to nudge not only our kids, but ourselves to explore new local places and learn a bit more about the beautiful world around us.  Today we began at an area I had been hundreds of times, but took a short hike down to a portion of the river that I had never been.  The anticipation of changing colors and cooler temperatures surrounded us... I could almost taste it.  A dreamy setting for Fall Minis if I ever did see one!!  So get pumped - I have a feeling this year is going to extra special.  

Mini sessions are tons of fun - if you've never attended one of BDP's mini sessions before, here's a few things to expect:  I always have a few little activities to keep kiddos occupied while Mom or Dad are filling out paperwork and waiting their turn.  There will also be gorgeous product samples to check out, including holiday card designs and gift ideas.  They are QUICK.  20 minutes flies by, so a mini session is much different than a regular session - however, they're an awesome opportunity to get a quick updated portrait for the wall and get those holiday cards taken care of.  It's also a perfect chance to give the Brandilyn Davidson Photography experience a try if you haven't yet.  Or maybe you've never had any professional photography experience before, or maybe you're looking for a new photog to call your own... whatever your story - I hope to see you there!!

Here are the mini session details - you have two packages to choose from, and I'm currently only offering one date:  

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SATURDAY, OCTOBER 7TH (9-11 AM & 3-5 PM)

BASIC MINI - $195

CLASSIC MINI - $495

  • sessions are scheduled in 1/2 hr. increments

  • Classic Mini clients will also receive 20% off additional purchases!

  • up to 6 people per mini session time slot (additional person, $25 each)

  • session fee is due at booking to reserve your time slot


MINI SESSION REFERRALS: Tell your friends about Fall Mini Sessions and get rewarded!!  For EACH friend who also books a mini session, you'll both receive not one, but TWO FREE gift prints (an $80 value!!).  There's no limit, so get talking and sharing to rack up those free prints!!  Make sure to have your friends let me know you sent them!  **For Fall Mini Session clients only**

THE Best Homemade Almond Milk (that's way easier than you think!)

Almond milk.  It sounded super daunting to me too, but trust me you guys - this is EASY.   It also tastes a trillion times better than the store bought stuff and doesn't have all that added chemical crap.  I'm no mathematician, but I'm 96.3% sure it's cheaper too.  Mic DROP.

I'm going to walk you through the whole process to show you JUST how easy it is and because I'm such a visual learner - maybe you are too?  Don't want all the fluff and images?  Just scroll down to the bottom and print yo self out the recipe.  You'll be missing out though.  Just sayin.

First thing's first: pour 1 cup of almonds in a glass bowl and cover with water.  Soak overnight.  This is probably the hardest step, because you have to remember at night.  Ya know, when you're a zombie.

By morning the water will look pretty nasty and the almonds will too.  Have faith.

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Because no one likes nasty stuff, rinse those babies off in some nice, cool water until they glisten and shine.

Enter: an obviously photoshopped diamond bling shimmer star on the sunshine-kissed almonds... 

Secret ingredient time!!  I think everything tastes better with just a *touch* of sweetness, so when I was working at getting my almond milk juuust right I thought of coconut water.  Turns out I'm a genius, but does that really come as a surprise?

Pour 1/2 cup (4 oz.) coconut water (without pulp) into your blender.  This feels like a good time to mention that I haven't tried making this without my Blendtec.  I LOVE my Blendtec.  It was an investment, but I use it at least once a day - it's so worth it.  I'm sure the same goes for a Vitamix or other high quality blender.   

Fill the blender with 3 1/2 cups cold water, so you have a total of 4 cups liquid.  1/2 cup coconut water + 3 1/2 cups water.  

Throw the clean, glistening almonds in the the coconut water/water mixture.  

I don't even know why but this might be my favorite picture of them all.  The calm before the storm... 

If you have a Blendtec, I use the 'Whole Juice' setting, but just basically blend those babies to smithereens, whatever setting/however long it takes.  Just DO IT.

It'll be kind of frothy on the top, like this:

A friend told me the same thing I'm about to tell you before I tried making almond milk and I decided I could do without it.  You'll need a Nut Bag.  Yes, a Nut Bag.  LISTEN TO ME NOW: Buy a dang Nut Bag.  It's fun to randomly throw out the phrase 'Nut Bag' into conversations anyways, so if anything - just get it for that.  But seriously - you NEED one.  It makes all the difference.  I got mine here.

Pour the almond mixture into the nut bag with a big bowl underneath to catch the liquid.  Fun fact: you can throw the nut bag in the washer when you're done and reuse it.  Ahhhh-mazing.

Gently pick up the bag and begin squeezing in a downward motion, beginning at the top of the bag... 

Keep squeezing... 

The goal is to get every last bit of liquid out, so twist and squeeze like you mean it!

When you're done you'll have a bunch of almond bits left in your bag - this is almond meal and don't you worry - I'll tell you what to do with that too!  Nothing goes to waste!

Look at your beautiful, creamy almond milk.  You've officially reached domestic god(dess) status.  I applaud you.  

Carefully pour the almond milk into a clean (preferably glass) container and refrigerate.  I definitely recommend waiting until it's nice and cold to drink/eat.

I've read varying opinions about how long the almond milk will last in the fridge, but I haven't had any go bad yet.  I'd say for sure a week and maybe up to 10 days or so?  OH!!  And separation is totally NATURAL.  Just give it a good shake before you pour :-) 

Now, the almond meal.  The first couple of times I made almond milk, I wasn't sure what to do with it and hated the thought of just throwing it away...  

Thankfully one of my friends hooked me up with this awesome tip: pour the almond meal onto a parchment paper-lined baking sheet...

Press it down a bit and then stick it into a 170 degree oven for about 3 (ish) hours, or until it's dried out.  I've made gluten free granola and pancakes with it and they were both delicious!!  

31 Days of No Spending

Yes you read that right.  An entire month of no spending.  I know you already have about a million questions racing through your mind, the first most likely being, "WHY!?!"  Don't worry, I'll explain everything.  

The madness began when I stumbled upon Ruth Soukup's Book Living Well Spending Less, which I absolutely loved.  It was inspirational and motivating, and a super easy read.  I highly recommend it.  I also have her Living Well Planner which has been a game changer for the to-do list addict in me.  {While I was at it, I grabbed her Living Well Spending Zero book, which basically guides you day by day through a month of no spending.  Because you know I always keep it real, I thought it was a complete waste of money.  Oh, the irony.}  

So what the heck is 31 Days of No Spending?  It can be a little bit different for everyone, but essentially it's one entire month where you don't spend ANY extra money.  No Target, no Starbucks, and definitely no Amazon.  Of course there are things that need to be paid each month - rent/mortgage, gas, power and garbage bills, etc.  Aside from the absolute necessary, each person/family can make their own specific guidelines depending on how strict or lax they want to be.  For our family, we decided that we would only purchase produce and dairy/eggs.  In the book, she said her family only purchased BANANAS and lived off their pantry for everything else.  Bananas ya'll.  For 31 one DAYS.  I'm super big on clean eating, so not having fresh fruits and veggies for an entire month just wasn't an option for us.  But that's what's so cool about it - 31 days of no spending will look somewhat different for everyone.

So WHY did we decide to do it?  My husband is a physical therapist, I stay home and homeschool/adventure with our four kiddos and (obviously) am a photographer part-time (or even less as of lately).  We just paid off the balance on our student loans (whoo hoo!), so our current financial goals consist of building our savings back up to ultimately buy or build a home.  To do so, we've been consciously working at spending less over the last several months - without much success.  After each month went by, we'd add up what we spent and then sit there baffled, wondering what we spent it all on...  Please tell me we aren't alone in this?!?!  So when I read about the extreme no spending concept in Living Well Spending Less, I knew immediately I wanted to do it.  We needed to do it.  It made complete sense to me.  I thought of it like a cleanse for our spending - a way to reset our habits and begin anew with a clearer perspective.  I mean, how hard could it be? 

So I convinced my husband and kids to commit to this crazy challenge and off we went!  First we set our guidelines: absolutely no spending aside from groceries - specifically only produce and dairy (milk, yogurt, cheese, eggs).  We decided on a $500 food budget for the month (which honestly I have no idea how this compares to the average family, but it was pretty minimal for us) - we're a family of six and my 9 year old consistency puts down 2-3 apples a day.  You do the math.  My husband said he didn't think I could do it, which by the way - I DID. (insert punch emoji here)  Then we stated our goals:  Obviously we wanted to save money throughout the month, but we also really wanted to find a deeper appreciation and gratitude for the many blessings we already have.  To find joy and contentment without the need to purchase new things.  We wanted to pay attention to our spending habits (both good and bad) and to better differentiate between "wants" and "needs".  Instead of walking you through our month, I decided to answer all of the questions that were asked via Facebook and Instagram (make sure you're following along yo!):   

Did you stock up a ton before hand?  Actually no.  However, this totally depends on how stocked you keep your pantry and cupboards.  I'm kind of a "prepper" when it comes to how much we have on hand - for example, when our favorite pizza sauce is on sale, I'll buy 10 instead of 1 so that I have it on hand when I make pizza, which happens to be every Thursday.  I also buy lots of things in bulk with Amazon's Subscribe & Save like conditioner, lotion, baby wipes, etc.), but I did make sure we had plenty of toilet paper, paper towels, shampoo etc. which we already did.  The only things I bought ahead of time were a bunch of bread from Costco (and then froze it) and some ground turkey and chicken breasts, which went in the freezer as well.  So I really wouldn't say we spent extra before we started, mainly because of the way I already shop.  If you keep a minimalist pantry and cupboards, this challenge might be a little more difficult for you.  

Did you cheat?  Technically... yes.  As in, I broke our own guidelines.  Some of the meat I had counted on using from my freezer had gone bad (due to our garage freezer being turned off without us knowing), so I did purchase a few meat items throughout the month, but extremely sparingly and I kept within our $500 budget.  I also bought a couple of "snack" type items (popcorn, crackers, etc.) for our kids lunches because we ran out after week one.  I had saved up two Starbucks drink rewards on my app and used those on the days when I reeeeeaaalllly needed it, which technically I wouldn't call cheating because I didn't spend any money.  Josh and I also went on a date to Cheesecake Factory and used a gift card we had been gifted... again, didn't spend a penny!  Oh!  But I just remembered I bought 2 bottles of Diet Coke and a pack of Mentos for a science experiment... Cheater status up in hurrr.

Did you meal plan for the entire month?  No.  If I was amazing and totally on top of it (which is never) then I would have...  I just don't have the time (or at least I tell myself I don't!) so I *try* to meal plan each Sunday for the upcoming week.  Throughout the month I would buy whatever produce was on sale - broccoli, asparagus, kale, oranges - and base our meals off of that and what I already had in my pantry.  I definitely had to improvise and get creative, but the challenge was surprisingly fun.  On the flip side, there were definitely a few nights when I would have done ANYTHING to just grab a pizza.

What lifestyle and/or routine changes did you have to make?  Where do I begin, ha!  My love affair with Target was put on hold and remarkably, I survived... ha!  In lots of ways it's easier for me to take all my kiddos out.  I'm more present, they argue less and everyone has more fun.  But leaving the house usually = spending money.  Especially when it's raining - which it did - a lot.  So making our home a more peaceful and organized place to be was something I worked on quite a bit throughout the month.  That and not going completely insane.  On that same note, another challenging aspect was packing food before we left to go anywhere.  I swear my kids never stop eating therefore I am never without snacks because let's just say, I've learned the hard way (HANGRY 4 year olds are scarier than any horror film, trust me).  So having food on hand wasn't a new thing for me.  What was a new thing was making sure I had MORE than enough food to last us our entire adventure before we left the house.  Making sandwiches, cutting fruit... and when we had to be out the door by 8:30, it got kinda rough.  We were late more than often (which is often).  This month also contributed to a self-realization about my unhealthy relationship with food.  I realized that one of the main ways I've learned to "treat myself" when I'm having a rough day with the kiddos is to buy something - usually involving Starbucks and/or chocolate - so I was forced to first of all, really notice this about myself, and then to seek healthier (and free) ways to give myself a break.  One of those was going to the gym and listening to uplifting podcasts.  I've also been inspired to take on my next adventure - which is no sugar or gluten for 2 weeks.  Maybe I'll blog about that next ;-)

Did it affect the kids?  If so, how?  It absolutely did, but in amazing ways!  My older two (ages 12 and 9) were completely on board and would say things like, "Mom, do you think it's okay we're using gas?" or "Oh shoot, we'll have to wait to buy that until next month."  Now that the month is over by son just said out of the blue "I'm so proud of you and dad for doing no spending for a whole month!"  They're old enough to really understand the difference between a "want" and a "need" and I think it was a great lesson for all of us, especially them.  I think it also helped them to realize that everything costs money and you can have tons of fun without spending any!  Besides the occasional comment about wishing we had certain food items or not liking some of the food we were having, they really didn't complain at all.  But then again, my kids are pretty awesome.

What about essentials or unexpected items?  What about birthday parties and gifts?  This is such a good question.  We got totally lucky and didn't have any crazy unexpected expenses like a flat tire or health emergency this month, so I guess I'm not exactly sure how that would have gone.  My husband's car suddenly needed new brakes, but we decided to wait until the month was over.  (And still haven't done that... whoops.)  As far as essentials, I already mentioned how my "prepping" mentality took care of that.  Birthday parties!!  Such a great question.  So maybe this is totally unoriginal of me or maybe it's genius, I'll let you decide... but whenever I find an awesome toy or game at a great price, I'll buy one (or two or three) and stick them in our gift cupboard.  I've even bought gift cards when they're on sale to have on hand.  You never know when you'll want to surprise a friend with a little pick-me-up or get invited super last minute to a party.  The gift cupboard has saved my life at least nine times.  My baby girl actually turned 3 this month, but (before even knowing we'd do this no spending challenge) I had already bought her gifts after Christmas.  We had a little potluck dessert party with family and she thought it was amazing.  Once again, gift cupboard to the rescue!!        

What did you miss the most?  Oh gosh... probably Target.  I just finally went for the first time in OVER a month and it kind of felt like walking through the gates of heaven.  But then as we were walking around, this part of me kept thinking - look at all this stuff that I don't need.  I'm proud to say I waltzed outta there spending less than $12.  Twelve dollars ya'll.  Pretty sure that's a lifetime record for me.  I'm a changed woman (for now)!! 

How much did you save?  This is the pretty crazy part.  So I mentioned earlier that we've been actively trying to spend less and save more.  Well, compared to our average spending over the last six months, we spent $2800 LESS this month.  {To clarify, I took what we spent each month for the past 6 months and divided by 6 to get that "average" number.}  Also - wow factor here: that's including a credit card payment of $1200 we made from last month's spending!!  (We have a couple credit cards like Southwest airlines that we intentionally use each month and then pay off to get the points for flights, etc.)  When we did the math, my husband and I were BLOWN AWAY.  I still don't even know what we've been spending all our money on.  I don't even get it.  I do know though, that most of it was completely unnecessary.    

Would you do it again?  What would you do differently?  We're planning to do it again for sure.  I think we'll do it at least once a year around Spring time (maybe February next year - less days, ha!).  As far as what we'd do differently - I'd make sure we had a little more meat and bread stocked up (and maybe some treats).  I'd also talk more with the kids about why we're doing it so they can be more involved.  Sidenote: all my kids have their own money and they each chose to do the no spending month along with us!!

How has this challenge changed you?  Now that the month is over, do you want to spend a ton?  Considering I walked out of Target spending less than $15 should speak volumes.  I'm not a big spender, really - but I think it's all the little things that add up.  $5 here, $20 here... it can add up quick!  This month has helped me to be much more aware of my spending habits and what things we actually need.  I'm motivated to keep the momentum we're on.  It feels so good to be in control and to see the fruits of our labors!  So if anything, it's been the opposite of wanting to go out and spend a ton!  I've been very reserved and aware.  Fingers crossed it'll stick!  That being said, we aren't being quite as strict now that the month is over.  It's definitely not something we could maintain long-term, nor do I think we should.  I mean, isn't the reason we make money is to enjoy it and have it work for us?  

Tips for those who want to give it a try?  First and foremost, you have to really be committed.  You have to WANT to do it, knowing it will be hard - but also knowing you can TOTALLY do it.  It's truly empowering to practice self-control - in any form.  I'm realizing it's not something I'm naturally good at (hence my crazy emotional food attachment issues...).  Second, have a plan.  What exactly will be your guidelines?  Make sure it's something you can stick with, but that will be a challenge.  And WHY are you doing it?  What are your goals?  Depending on how you already shop, I'd slowly start adding a few extra cans of tomatoes here and a few extra boxes of cereal there - and when you find a great deal on meat - buy three and freeze them!  Like Dave Ramsey always says, "If you will live like no one else, later you can live like no one else!"  The sacrifice is well worth the reward - which is getting that much closer to your financial goals and hopefully making some lasting changes to the way you view spending.  If you don't care about all that saving mumbo jumbo and competition is more your thing, then -

I dare you.

 

Feel free to reach out to me with any questions.  I'm no expert of course, but I'm always down to lend a helping hand or give a little moral support.  You can totally do this!!! 

* All images in this post are iphone images and not a reflection of my professional work.  Just had to throw that in there. ;-)